September 22, 2003

  • I have to think about the concept of altruism, and whether or not it is really practical for a person to be altruistic.  I said that it takes balance between self-centeredness and altruism for a person to live up to their full potential.


    Let's explore the options.  We can start with self-centeredness, since we can all relate to it much easier.  It is basically being selfish, without all the negative connotations attached to it.  We must supply ourselves with at the very least, our most basic needs, such as what Maslow delineated in his hierarchy of needs.  Without a fundamental need, we cannot move on to fulfill other needs.  Yet selfishness, taken to its umpteenth degree, is a trait that most people hate.  It would cause the deterioration of relationships with friends and family.  That alone would cause Maslow's hierarchy of needs to crumble, as the need for belonging could not be met.


    Altruism takes the step that self-centeredness cannot.  It allows a person to develop stronger relationships, because if you help someone get to where they want to be, they will help you get to where you want to be.  That's why networks are so important.  Altruism allows us to help others.  Altruism gets us closer to self-actualization. 


    It's interesting.