August 4, 2005

  • The only people that can effectively hold us back is ourselves. When we hate on one another, and refuse to support each other, or even talk smack about someone else, we all contributes to a society that doesn't believe in humanity. How many times have we taken someone's opinion of another and immediately apply it to our own assessment. Person A got a weird vibe from Person B. Person C tells Person D that Person A felt that way  Well, as Person D, I refuse to buy into the hype. I'll find out for myself thank you very much. Not everyone thinks this way though, and everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I will not enable others and give them permission to hate on others through any actions of my own.


    Imagine a place where we supported each other to the best of our capacities. Where only the elements and circumstances were the only problems and stressors we faced. We work on that at FAYLC. We work on that outside of FAYLC. I hope we all continue to work on that. That's what I would want to enable others to do.

Comments (2)

  • - Hey Bobbo! Here I am to play devil's advocate again.....

    I understand what you're saying, and on a whole agree, but let's say it isn't gossiping or bad mouthing, but rather a warning from a loved one? Example:

    Mother says to daughter, "Please stay away from so and so, I have heard that he is a serial rapist." 

    I know the example is a bit extreme, but in that case it really isn't bad mouthing, but precautionary.

    However, if it were, "She's stupid don't hang out with her," then, depending upon who made the comment, I would either question the judgement or flat out ignore it.

  • Hey Bobby:  If you have something to say to me about what I discussed with you tonight, then I would appreciate you saying it to my face or discussing it with me rather than having to read about it on your xanga.  By the way, I have valid reasons for disliking certain people, especially when they have done nothing but bad things to others and to me.  So if other people pick up on that kind of energy from them. hey, gut feelings never lie.

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